Ruth G. Pihl, 96, of West Yarmouth passed peacefully on January 15 in her home of 76 years. She was born September 21, 1928, in Lynn, MA to the late Harold Goodwin Sr. and the late Frances (Carter) Goodwin.

She graduated from Chatham High School and later fulfilled her lifetime dream of becoming a teacher after receiving a BA at UMass Boston in 1973. She was married to Winsor Baker from 1948 until his passing in 1957. Together they had three daughters. She was married to Benjamin Pihl from 1971 until his passing in 2013.

She was a Girl Scout leader and Sunday school teacher when her daughters were young. Later, she was active in the West Yarmouth Library Association, became a tour guide, and was a Town of Yarmouth poll worker. With her husband Ben she was active in the Hyannis Yacht Club, the Bass River Rod and Gun Club, and the Cape Cod Power Squadron.

She enjoyed reading, jigsaw puzzles, gardening, shell fishing, sailing, sewing, knitting Christmas stockings for her growing family, but most of all she enjoyed spending time with her family. She is survived by her brother Harold Goodwin Jr. of Chatham and predeceased by two brothers, Robert and George.

She is survived by her three daughters Susan Baker, Jane Lovelette (Timothy), and Louise Baker all of Yarmouth. She is also survived by five grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren.

Burial will be private, and in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to YFFRA, 96 Old Main Street, South Yarmouth 02664 or the charity of your choice.

Susan, Jane, and Louise - So sorry to learn of your mother’s passing. She was a wonderful role mode and was always so kind. I remember her fondly from Girl Scouts and Colonial Acres, and she made the best whoopie pies! Condolences to you all.

Dear Louise, Susan, Jane and other family members: My heart goes out to each of you with the loss of your lovely Mom. It is a beautiful write up on her life and all she accomplished throughout her amazing years. She truly was an incredible individual and such a strong woman. I'm so thankful she met Ben when she did and they had 42 great years together. I feel blessed to have known her. You all are a wonderful family unit and I have no doubt you will find strength from one another as you manage through the loss of your Mom. I'm thankful she went peacefully in her sleep, but I know too well you are only hoping for one or two or three more days, months or years with her. Her memory and stories will live on. Again, my heart goes out to you all. As I said before, it was wonderful knowing your Mom (aka" Mama Ruth") even though we lived miles away. She was an amazing woman with so many gifts. God Bless You! With Love, Karen and John Loff (Ben's Oldest daughter from his first marriage.)

So sorry for your loss, Jane. Your mom was always so nice to me. I remember having overnights - on school nights! - at your house. She was always so welcoming and kind. You and your sisters were lucky to have one of the great ones. Rest in peace, Mrs. P. ❤️

Susan,Jane and Louise.so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. I feel that she had lived a long life and deserved to have a rest. I am pleased it was not death with pain just a gentle leaving us behind. I know she thinks of all of you fondly as you do with her. It is difficult to know that she is gone .but this too shall pass. Prayers for all of you Pam Berube