Theresa Marie McElligatt, age 59, died on July 9, 2024. Theresa struggled with brain cancer (glioblastoma) for 17 months and passed away peacefully at home surrounded by loved ones.

In high school Theresa met her soul mate and future husband, Patrick McElligatt. Their relationship blossomed from high school sweethearts to a loving partnership that lasted nearly forty-four-years, including a happy thirty-five-year marriage. Together they raised a family across six states, traveled the world, and created cherished memories. Their partnership included a thirty-year military career, with Patrick serving in the United States Coast Guard, and Theresa providing him with support and counsel, and making wherever they served home.

Theresa’s passion in life was her family, and her true calling was being a loving and devoted mother. She raised three amazing children, Donovan (age 31), Melina Vella (age 24) and Delaney (age 21). As a mother, she was a fierce advocate for her children and provided loving encouragement through their struggles and successes. She took great pride in seeing her children live the lessons of compassion, empathy, and service to others.

One of six children, Theresa was a voice of reason, confidant, and moral compass for her siblings. Most of all, she was a source of joy. She was the family’s host for the holidays, and travel agent for trips and vacations. The importance of family led her to constantly create opportunities to share the joy of family with her siblings.

The McElligatts lived in many places as a Coast Guard family, including Governors Island, NY; Deep River, CT; Waldorf, MD; Kodiak, AK; Honolulu, HI; and Seattle, WA. Theresa’s caring personality, bright spirit, and love of life led her to create many long-lasting friendships at every station.

Theresa could always be counted on to speak her mind, offering fresh perspective and giving honest advice whenever needed. She had an infectious laugh and a wry sense of humor. Her tender hugs always felt like they came from the bottom of her heart. We have lost a beautiful soul, and she will be missed every day by her family and friends.

Visiting hours will be held at Hallett Funeral Home, 273 Station Ave. South Yarmouth on Wednesday July 17th from 2:30 p.m. to 4:30 p.m., followed by a graveside service at 5:00 p.m. at Woodside Cemetery in Yarmouth Port.

Patrick, I'm so sorry for your loss. She was you soulmate I remember. Condolences love. Hang in there

Brian, I'm so very sorry for you and your family's terrible loss. I'll keep all of you in my prayers. God bless, Marie

Brian and family members. Sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Deb

Thank you for being the warmest hug, the brightest smile, and the most contagious laugh. You shall always have a special place in our hearts, forever and always.

So sorry to hear of Theresa’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with Patrick and the kids during this difficult time. God bless.

My condolences on the loss of your loved one Theresa. I was the Catholic priest chaplain in Kodiak and have fond memories of the McElligatt family. I am praying for all of you. Blessings of peace, hope and love, John C. Monahan, S.J.

Theresa was a devoted wife and mother. Her entire life was her immediate family. She will be miss3d.

Being a friend of Theresa,s, mother ,Jamie. I feel as if I knew Theresa and family. I am very saddened and extend my condolences to the family

Theresa was not only a loving mom to her children, but she also took care of Hayley when Hayley needed to talk, she was there. She also called Theresa her second Mom. Theresa taught me so much, especially how to advocate for our children. You are truly the most amazing person that I have known or will ever know. Thank you for your love, Theresa

It was a privilege to be your friend, Theresa. Love and tight hugs to Patrick, Donovan, Melin, and Delaney.

Sending love and prayers. Colleen

Love you always,Theresa. Thank you for all the friendship, love, laughs and joy in raising families! ❤️